Thought I’d sort of give everyone an update on life in general – because there’s much to say!
The past couple of months have been revolutionary to me. All of our bills are getting paid on time, in full – for some things like credit cards, school loans, or hospital bills, we’ve been paying more than we owe. And we’re not starving. Our fridge and pantry are well-stocked. And yet we still have money in the bank, let alone an ever-growing amount of money we’ve been saving. This is such a far cry from where we were not long ago financially. Gary’s no-longer-new job has certainly helped, especially his recent raise. We just…suddenly have plenty, and I’m not quite sure what to do with plenty anymore. But it’s…so, so nice. Some of the worry is gone.
We have also been actively looking for a house to rent near my parents. We thought we’d found The One about 30 minutes from my parents (and 40 minutes from my work) – it was a brick rancher, 3 bedrooms, nice yard, garage, huge basement with lots of storage space. Both of us fell in love with it. However, we were one of two applicants…and the other applicants were chosen. I was really sad about that for a while. I emotionally attach to things, even objects – once I start arranging my furniture in a place and start imagining myself living there, it’s all over – in my head, it’s mine now. So that was hard to deal with.
After spending every weekend at my parents’ house for the past month or more, we chose this past weekend to stay at home and recover and relax. We both woke up with horrendous migraines on Saturday morning, and took strong medicine and chilled for a while. Once we started feeling a little better, we heated up leftover pizza for lunch and decided to have an X-Men marathon. There we were, still lounging in our pajamas, Sherlock lodged between us, and my phone rang. It was my dad. He sounded nearly giddy. “Hi! We’re looking at a house for you!” I was…suspicious. And unsure of whether or not a line had just been crossed somehow. But then he began to describe it to me – it is a two-story duplex with a full, finished basement and a room for an office down there. Large kitchen and dining room area. Large bathroom. Back porch/deck with a small yard. Sherlock is allowed with no extra charge. All in all, about 2700 square feet (triple what our apartment is right now) – for over $100 less a month. “I just…I can really see you guys living here,” Dad said at long last. I put him on hold and relayed the information to Gary. “You okay with another 2-hour trip to Mom and Dad’s to see this house?”
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